- My biggest Christmas wish is that it comes with as few tears as poissble and my girls feel they get even a tiny taste of the Christmas joy this year. In two days my soon-to-be-ex husband is moving out into his own place and all I can do is cry when I think about how its going to break our 3 little girl's hearts. They are so little and don't understand. We didn't get a xmas tree this year and there are no presents because of our situation. More than anything I want them to have something to smile about this Christmas because they have been looking forward to it so much. I am hoping they will some how some way get that.